Mx Wolfie 🐺 @wolfie@queer.party

My Hair After Wash Day:

Day 1: Amazing Gorgeous! Silky smooth, great shine, soft as hell, wonderful curls and volume!

Day 2: Not as shiny or smooth but still good shape.

Day 3: I am a tumbleweed atop a human body

Look at this super cute ace bee sticker I got!! It's from the pipsqueakery and I love it so much.

#asexual #ace

TIL

“Did you know that bees sleep between 5-8 hours a day, sometimes in flowers? Also, they like to sleep with other bees and hold each other’s feet”

Middle English was the original shitposting

they keep adding new genders, call me old fashioned but i still think the original 151 are the best

@thamesynne @FuchsiaShock yesss it was hacked! https://twitter.com/AllianceLGB/status/1217809578349428737

the updates took a while, but we're back!

apply bun to face for best results

Gender isn't binary. It's not a spectrum. You can't plot it on a 4D graph. There aren't any numbers there at all!

Gender is a story.

If you want to tell people who you are you gotta use your words homie.

quantifying gender/sex/sexual attraction/etc is not only exclusionary but kind of misses the point

i think it was someone here on fedi who said gender isn't a spectrum or a chart or a scale, it's a story we tell about ourselves

So this graph has been going around twitter and now mastodon (and even AVEN have RTd someone correcting the inclusion of asexuality) but I just wanted to write my own "why asexuality doesn't relate to libido" post! (there are also several other issues with the graph but this is very glaring)

This graph puts asexual on the Libido/Sexual drive spectrum, opposite to Hypersexual. This is incredibly wrong.

So, first of all, sexual attraction, sexual desire (libido) and sexual action are three separate spectrums.

Sexual attraction is who you are sexually attracted to - so for a bi person that could be people of any gender, a gay man is attracted to men etc

Sexual desire (libido) is how interested you are in having sex, regardless of who you are attracted to

Sexual action is how much you have sex, again regardless of who you are attracted to.

proposing a new gender diagram

here it is:
how to change your name and gender marker on a uk passport

it's been 6 months since i did this but this is as clear as i can manage. it's not anywhere near as hard as i thought. if i have to redraft i'll do it under this post. ok let's go

France apparently has selected an SCP as their Eurovision song this year, in case you all were wondering how that's going

please to gently boop the catte

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