@tardybox I wish I could get her to open up to me more. I always call her when something minor sets me off at work, or I'm having "a case of the sadbrains". I wish she would remember that that's what I'm here for, even if I'm not physically with her I can be an emotional support for her. Her mom said the same thing, E. has this whole support structure but she doesn't use us enough.
@tardybox I'm just really worried about her codependency. I love being with her, but if I had to travel for work or something... It scares me that it's only been 2 days and she got herself so worked up. Plus she never calls or texts me when she's depressed or anxious, like when she starts to have bad brain feels she doesn't immediately reach out. She didn't call me today until she was already at the hospital.
@tardybox My wife is trans and she has been smoking on and off since we met. I thought she had quit until we went camping over the summer, she bummed a cigarette off one of our friends who was smoking and that got her on it again.
But you're not supposed to smoke when you take estrogen pills. They told her that at the hospital, which I guess is the one good thing to come out of this.
I'm worried about my wife, and I don't know who to talk to, so I'll just ramble here because no one knows me irl here.
I'm on vacation with her family for Thanksgiving. She had to stay home because she has class until Wednesday.
I'm... better at being away from her than she is being separated from me. It's only Day 3 (I flew out Saturday morning) and today she was panicking so bad she went to the hospital thinking she was having a heart attack.
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