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julian✨ @hauntedsuburbs@queer.party

oof i feel terrible and gross this morning........BUT I CAN STILL TRY AND MAKE TODAY A GOOD DAY 🤢

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If someone with a disability or a chronic illness or a mental illness tells you something is too difficult for them to do, believe them. Maybe it's something they could do on another occasion. Maybe it's something you find, or even "everyone" finds, easy. Maybe it's something you found trivial to research or learn how to do. Believe them anyway. Maybe it's only three steps, maybe it's a piece of software, or a phone call. Believe them anyway.

Believe people when they tell you their experiences.

she found another window to sit in

@hauntedsuburbs also i guess i shouldn’t be surprised since Velma did the same exact thing last year,

but just by leaning all of her weight against the screen

I was standing at the back of the house and heard my kitten meowing through the window.

when i walked over to her, she laid down on her side and BUSTED THE SCREEN off the window with all four feets.

i stopped the screen and the kitten from falling out of the house completely. but still... my heart... 😩

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"Demons'R'Us, how can we help you today?"
"I have a history test today, can an old demon possess me and pass it?"
"Certainly, that will cost a twentieth of a human soul."
"Can I pay with a hamster's soul?"
"Absolutely not! Sacrificing an innocent animal? Shame on you! Good bye!"
#MicroFiction #TootFic #SmallStories

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Poor people don't need you to feel sorry for them.

They don't need to be reminded how people should be paying them and aren't.

They don't need to hear about how unfair anything is.

They don't need to hear how if they lived in your country they wouldn't be poor and would have health care.

They don't need compliments.

They don't need advice.

They don't need you to feel anything for them.

They need money.

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Happy Tuesday, folks.

Always be open to lending a helping hand, but never take on someone else's anxieties or fears as your own. That does not help the person in need and it's not fair to you.

A big part of self care is setting your boundaries and knowing how much you can give and take. Be honest about them and be consistent in maintaining them until you feel you're ready to expand them.

You're a person too. You get to decide what you will and won't allow in your space.

i’m at the dentist office with my grandma and the only other people here are another grandchild/grandparent pair.

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My personal mantra for not replying to trolls: "Once muted, soon forgotten."

A powerful spell. Practically magic missile.

We should train in it, because it is the same basic spell they use to forget us.

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The elementary school by my house is flying a rainbow flag and a trans pride flag and I just

I'm okay

The kids are gonna be okay

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Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare. ~ Audre Lorde

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THERE’S STILL TIME TO MAKE TODAY A GOOD DAY

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look it’s me in my high waisted short shorts ✨

i’m drawing something and i’m actually really happy about how it’s going?

usually whenever i start drawing something it turns into “i just need to get this done so that i can say i finished a drawing and then i can put it behind me.”

this time, though, i’m ok. and the thing on the screen is actually close to what i imagined. ahhh :blobaww: