Here's the thing, homie. Black/Brown folks have been told the world how to deal with racism, so that's not the problem.
The problem is that white people don't listen and do what makes them feel better rather than what is effective.
A great example of this is the current POTUS. He's a result of a large majority of white voters ignoring the lessons we told them.
We _told y'all_ 🍊 was a racist fuck up repeatedly.
But y'all don't listen.
The single most effective way to fight racism is for white people to challenge it at the source. Yes, that means in your neighborhoods, churches, events, etc.
White people constantly tell us how courages we all need to be and FIGHT TOGETHER, but that usually results in them hiding behind us when the cops come or not saying anything when a racist family member goes in on a friend, lover, etc.
White 'progressives' want us to BRAVE, but when the same is expected of them, they vanish.
And let's be real. Racists and bigot know most white people are cowards when it comes to dealing with racism. They know most white people aren't going to say shit when the get loud and hateful.
That's why this shit continues. That's why racists officials keep winning elections and setting policy that hurts all of us.
Every time there is a racist gathering, white folks should be mobilizing to counteract to reduce the harm it cause and not let them control the narrative.
But they don't.
I'm not questioning the importance and legitimacy of challenging racists but I have to ask: if we're also marginalized on other intersections (I'm trans and disabled) can we use these same tactics without being too much in danger? Because a racist person is usually a bigot in plenty of other ways.
@genderlessmenace666 When it comes to your safety, use your best judgment, i.e. don't be like me and try to fight a crowd of racists in a country bar. Pick your battles because knowing when to push back is important as well.
And I think you'd be better served to ask someone who can relate to your situation being trans and disabled because I can't give you an honest answer because I am unfamiliar with that experience, so I'm not in a great position to give you relevant advice.
okay, thank you... I try to be one of the "good ones" and call it as I see it but I have to think in terms of self-preservation, too.
@genderlessmenace666 Oh yeah, we all do. Every situation entails a bit of risk assessment.
Let's use sexism as an example. I can push it a little bit because I know most dudes don't want to get physical with another dude, so I tend to lean more on speaking up instead of not saying anything because privilege as a dude affords me that luxury.
In your case I can't advise that b/c it can get dangerous when you're by yourself.
Definitely be safe! But safe chances to speak exist.
GOBS of racism happens in white-only spaces, without cops or PoC around. Where racists think they're with folks who think like them.
Practice in a mirror. Seriously. Having "WTF did you say?" and "Racist much?" on tap is very handy, lets me assemble more specific words without letting the moment escape.
Each time gets easier.
And the look on their face, when they realize they've been caught, is precious!
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