Today I decided I needed to take a break from one of my online communities after I felt like it was getting to be less of a supportive place and more of a twisted codependency that wasn’t benefitting me. This feels like a really bad time to shed anything in my support network but hopefully I can fill the gap with a more constructive set of people and attitudes.
I might go back there eventually but I definitely need some time away.
@fluffy Rrf. I'm sorry. I hope you can take the time and distance you need, and find a space that's better fit for you for now.
@fluffy you owe no thing to any body -- not even a follow to peeps that may have supported you in the past. you deserve a timeline that makes you feel GOOD to scroll through, and you deserve a community that makes you feel GOOD to be part of.
i'm really proud of you for taking care of yourself, and i'm really happy for you that you'll seemingly have less negativity in your life. i wish you all the best 💖
@awkward_enbean this was a Slack community, but yeah. Thanks.
A silly instance of Mastodon for queer folk and non-queer folk alike. Let's be friends!