okay so. this recruiter found me on linkedin, where I have a very femmy picture of myself, she’s never met me in person, and in job-search contexts I use firstinitial middlename lastname because that seems more feminine. Everyone at the company I interviewed at was super respectful of my gender and pronouns. My references are also using the correct gender and pronouns for me.
So why the FUCK is the recruiter misgendering me?!