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crash cat identification guide ☺️ 

A picture collage of two black and white cats with green eyes with their names and descriptions

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i honestly have my doubts that anything clever I say is my original thought and not something I read someone on the internet say once 💭

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Hello it’s time!

I’m crash, a nonbinary trans person in their early 30s.

I am currently living on Algonquin lands in a central part of turtle island, also known as Ontario, Canada.

I have a lot of Opinions and like to talk about cats, kink, relationships, neurodivergence, and social structures.

I do a lot of rope / bondage / self tying and I have a lil blog type thing where I post about kink sometimes at

Hey! Remember to wear a mask! There's a huge surge right now, so if you are going out today at around 6:30 for no particular reason, make sure to wear a good quality face-mask like an N-95 if you have one. You are not specially immune to the plague!

My friend Quinn who got discriminated against by Starbucks and lost her job has gotten it in this latest wave, having already been boosted too.

Her #GoFundMe is here if you're interested. It would be nice if she got out of quarantine and there was some good fucking news for once.

friend with benefits are like 🎶 you got a friend in me 🎵

took myself out for lunch and a lil birdie tried to intimidate me into giving him some fries. Unfortunately for him, he was too tiny and cute for it to be effective

relationships, mental health 

Saw a meme with a name and now I’m thinking about a date I went on more than six years ago with someone who was super attractive but had a laugh that fuckin activated the shit out of me bc they looked and sounded so much like someone else I’d dated so I told them I was too busy with school to go out with them again bc I thought telling the truth would be too weird

lol i absolutely do not 'have to get covid at some point'

#OpSec #Smartphones #Surveillance

Mobile Phone Security for Activists and Agitators.

I just stumbled across this fantastic zine by @hakan_geijer, regarding surveillance and smartphones. There’s a ton of solid information here, as well as highlighting a few stubborn misconceptions. I strongly recommend everyone to read this, regardless of what your threat model or level of involvement in social movements might be.

kink fluff 

for a long time I had a bit of a complex about how I naturally slide into “second place” in many relationship dynamics. I want to reflect. I want to support. But intentional D/s lets me convert that into something to be proud of ☺️

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in a sun/moon symbolism pairing, which are you? (not necessarily romance can be pals, rivals, enemies, whatever)

kink fluff 

let me show the light u bring when things feel dark!!

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kink fluff 

submissive as in the moon to ur sun ☺️

trying to follow this instruction:

talk about the things you love, even if you think nobody cares.

people won't ask for it at least at first, but some of them will care

and it's attractive to see someone talk about the things they love.

let go of the notion that it's worthless if you don't get a minimum number of listeners, reactions, replies.

practice caring publicly about the things you care about.

I think this is a good reminder for me. I never liked being shy anyway

If your sex isn't the subject of a court order you don't have a legal sex, you just have sparkling reified database entries.

neurodivergent complaints, work 

I find some small comfort in being able to call this a neurodivergent thing bc there have been several times in my life that I’ve been in this place of Cannot Do Thing I Genuinely Want To Do where I haven’t had that. It’s been really bad lately though.

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neurodivergent complaints, work 

trying really hard to make myself do a work thing that I would really like to have some showable progress on by tomorrow and have spent the past two days sleeping or staring at my phone instead

doctor who fans: "it's implausible for everyone on Earth to just forget about the various Dalek invasions or things like the entire planet being moved"

me: *the only person wearing a mask in a crowded supermarket*

how many more ego deaths till I’m able to tolerate ppl being wrong on the internet 🥲

Erotophobia of corporate web 

Reason a zillion and one not to use corporate social media as an archive: Google deleted a university library's *entire archive of videos* for posting an interview with the creators of the lesbian magazine "On our backs" #youtube #google #censorship #lesbian

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