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As a multiply marginalised middle age person that finds lots of barriers to establishing bonds with people, I find this article really validating, and I wish this was discussed inside queer spaces more often. This idea now is mostly expressed by the aro community, but amatonormativity is a key facet of allocishet capitalist normativity and deconstructing it allows all of us to better support ourselves and keep all of us alive and thriving.

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Although I don't like valentines or overly romantic stuff, I'll use it for a friendly reminder: I'm single and open to meet nice queer people for possible partnership.

I'm pansexual, polyam, late 30's and good availability for travelling worldwide / spending long times abroad / maybe even relocate depending on the relationship. After some needed time alone, I feel ready to be in commited relationships again.

If you want to know me better, let's talk and be friends and see what happens.

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NSFW talk (just general info) Show more

trans stuff, packing advice needed Show more

10 Principles of Healing from Trauma Show more

I usually sleep with some soft ambient music on the laptop. When I forget to close it so my cat can't sit on the keyboard, next morning I find things like folders created on desktop, searches of keysmash on the music player, once she even deleted a whole playlist on accident.

One day I'll wake up to all my files deleted, my bank account emptied and an email postcard sent by her from one of those cat islands in Japan where she'd had run away with all my money to spend on gourmet cat food.

Oceans existed before they were named. Why must your gender be any different?

Be as free as the breeze, and as relentless as the sea.

Labels come later, if you wish it.

#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #lgbtq ..

“Life is long, and you will be many different people before the end.”

First image of black hole from National Science Foundation/Event Horizon Telescope press conference.

Doubting and hating yourself for being nonbinary is the result of being injured by liars and cowards.

Those cowards have been wrong about everything else thus far (their misogyny, cissexism, heteronormativity, etc. for example).

So, the reasonable thing to do is to stop listening to them any further.

Work on loving yourself instead like you deserve.

#nonbinarypride #nonbinarypositivity #exorsexism #selflove

This image was taken almost entirely with light from the other side of the black hole that just barely escaped falling into the event horizon.

i'm such in need for money and i rly fucking hate having to beg for it
but fuck it if you see this feel free to send me something if you can and want

i'd greatly appreciate and that would really really help me like making me able to buy actual food

maybe i'll do a more "official" post later but for now if you wanna help and/or boost that'd be awesome i really love you

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this multiply disabled student/speaker/creator is doing a campaign to raise money to afford a wheelchair; we all know that the us health system is real shitty at accessibility, and there's no way for one person to afford all of those expenses on their own! if you're able to, it'd be really cool to help him get the freedom to get himself where he needs to be!

Hey! I’ve set up a gofundme to rise money for top surgery! My quality of life is vastly hindered by my chest and I’d be so so thankful for all the help I can get. Even £1 makes all the difference. Thank you 💕

Please share! :)

it's my personal mission to try and convince you all that you deserve the utmost happiness and you should try everything you can to get the happiness you deserve and I believe in you and your ability to find a life you can live such that every day you wake up, you celebrate how great everything is ; w ;


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