physical health(-), joint hypermobility + dislocation
incredible to realize that I've been dislocating my shoulder for who the FUCK knows how long, and that what I thought was just "cracking my shoulder" like people crack their knuckles, was in fact me RELOCATING MY SHOULDER
if the doctor I'm seeing in March says I don't have EDS then I'll be hard-pressed to figure out what the FUCK I do have
Selfie, eye contact, joint dislocation
I don't have an EDS diagnosis but I'll be damned if i don't expect to get one soon
Selfie, eye contact, joint dislocation
Comparison between my arms before fixing the dislocation: you can see that one arm is significantly longer than the other
fedi/meta/personal, blocking, target harassment, racism
(if this is about you, you've been told.)
been trying hard not to block people who boost stuff against blocking. cos like after hellweek being personally targeted by kiwifarms/gleasonator/poast/etc., whenever unasked-for replyppl go "but what about the ~abuuse~ of the ~unjust power~ of ~not talking to people~", it feels like, dunno, being stepped on, personally, with a twist of the boottip for good measure. but I think, ok this is not about me, they don't know what organised online harassment feels like, they don't know that they're minimising it, they're just misguided. I know some good people who are terribly wrong about free speech ideology. or so I thought. then one of the good people starts boosting support for the exact specific trio of terf/fash/channer alliance that came for me. boosting support _for_ these instances, _by_ an open racist.
and I start to wonder, how much of a red flag is really, opposition to defederation
somebody I cared about is mutuals with n-word-using racists, would you know what they interact together about?
---
first time I saw Black people voicing how much of a terrible place the fediverse is, I thought huh where's all that stuff going on? I never see any of it! how come me, a white woman, never see any of the racism
oh.
protip for fellow whites, Black people talking about racism know what they're talking about and you don't. so listen to what they say on how to deal with it, and take a stand. anti-racist doesn't mean non-racist.
Tumblr repost, dyadism, cissexism, sex is not real
Every single person saying “sex is real, it’s gender that’s not real” to support trans people needs to sit down and think about how that affects intersex people.
Sex is literally made up. Sex characteristics? Real. Genitalia is real, hormone levels are real, chromosomes are real… But dividing those into two boxes isn’t real. We arbitrarily threw together the two most common combinations of these traits, called them male and female, and said fuck everyone who doesn’t fit into that.
Sex isn’t some holy thing that only the most radical people want to destroy, it’s a farce used to justify the medical abuse of intersex people. If you want to be an ally to intersex people, please take the time to think about these things. Think about the way we talk about sex and how it might be hurting intersex people.
Using “assigned gender” language, legitimating the idea of a sex binary, calling intersex types “conditions”/“disorders”/etc., comparing intersex people to animals with diverse sex characteristics, and not listening to or acknowledging intersex people are all things people need to stop doing if they want to be allies to intersex people.
I’m trans as well as intersex, I know that supporting trans rights is incredibly important, but it should not be done at the expense of intersex people.
A group of friends and I have been trying to help this woman in New Orleans keep her home. If you can spare any $ I would super appreciate it. The only thing we have is each other. #mutualaid
me: all right, time for me to drink my coffee and watch something on youtube perhaps, and -
youtube: hey do you want a maned wolf getting tummy rubs
me: i...
me: i don't know why you think i want this
youtube: but you want this, right?
me: you are absolutely right, yes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uDd1QdeOx4&ab_channel=Naty%27sAdventures
erotic fiction, ok to boost
Hey all please enjoy this smut I wrote starring basically my only two straight OCs
To defeat fascism, we all HAVE to get organized. Contact a socialist organization. Get involved. There's no time to decide anymore. Put aside squabbles, get ready to work with people you might not like or wholly agree with, get out there and do whatever you can.
The fascists are training, mobilizing, base-building. We should be doing this, too. Tell everyone you know. Talk about it. Encourage people. We HAVE to. We have to do this and start talking to everyone we know.
discussion of nsfw art, problems with underage content
It really sucks that this is such a pervasive issue; it can't even be said that this can be chalked up to a handful of creeps and predators, because sexualization of underage characters is so normalized in society
people give excuses like "they're not real" or "it's just fantasy" and the entire NSFWsphere of the internet is FLOODED with underage sexualization
it's so rampant but also so important to push back against it
discussion of nsfw art, problems with underage content
People who draw porn need to be a lot more diligent and proactive in making sure that content depicting underage characters is completely unacceptable
Artists need to shun and ostracize other artists who draw this stuff
Only by actively and consistently making NSFW spaces hostile to underage content and artists who draw it, can we hope to see any change
lewd, gnomes
'gnomefucker' is either an omen indicating yer gonna die soaked in sweat, or a title of great power
humies often think gnomes're chaste cuz they don't understand what 'sleep with someone' means. But it's cuz if you go ta bed wif a gnome, you ain't sleepin.
once you go gnome, you don't go home.
lewd, dwarves, elves, halflins, gnomes, orcs, gobbos, kobolds, ratfolk
dwarves got th' proportionately biggest dicks
ha'lings gots the proportionately biggest tits
goblins have the fattest asses but kobolds have th' widest hips
orcs take forever but cum a lot
elves have lotsa erogenous zones
ratfolk have the biggest balls
gnomes have th' most stamina
nsfw story, smut, monsters, corruption, ok to boost
we wrote a smexy story https://archiveofourown.org/works/28185360
Evelyn Adina Redmane, at your service.
big gay communist furry.
always a Maned Wolf, sometimes a crocodile.
headmate to @smallandgreen and
@nightsheyd@monsterpit.net.
18+ only.