CharlieInTheory @CharlieInTheory@queer.party

I think I am gonna look into an orchi because GCS isn’t until fall of 2023. 😮‍💨

Honestly, if you do pass often, then I probably don’t want to hear your takes on how passing isn’t important. I don’t disagree but I don’t need millionaires to tell me that money can’t buy you happiness.

Questions like “why are all trans women hot?” don’t make me feel good. They make me feel icky at best and usually they make me feel excluded and invalidated.

Are you implying you have to be conventially beautiful to be valid? Are you saying all women aren’t beautiful? Are you separating trans and cis women? Are you trying to placate me?

Gender isn’t just about looks. Can we just celebrate trans people for more than their bodies?

Dysphoria doesn’t care that I have things to do and people to help. Dysphoria just wants to ruin everything.

Yesterday was probably my best birthday yet. ☺️

I wish I had pickles.

#trans

I just want to love myself. Is that too much to ask?

Being a cat mom is hard sometimes.

I want to see Sweet Home Alabama (or the many Christmas versions) but #trans and #queer. Does this film exist?

Taking a nap and hoping I wake up wiser. ☺️

I am exhausted. I'm making progress on my envy issues but talking to super-successful academics and touring a campus full of half-naked twentysomethings is a lot. I did better than I would have a few months ago but I still need some rest.

A new collaborator misgendered me today during a meeting. I wasn’t hurt or offended because I hadn’t offered my pronouns when we met and it was an honest mistake in the situation. I casually corrected and they were like “yeah, of course, sorry” then repeated the sentence with my correct pronouns. I may have needed that today more than being gendered correctly.

#trans #phdchat

I should drink more tea. 🍵

I have a cat and a girlfriend. I am a girlfriend. It’s old news but still cool.

#trans #lesbian

I would rather see GOP ads than RuPaul Drag Race Video Game ads. Please stop. It hurts.

#trans #queer #lgbtqia

Maybe take a break if you need one.

Holding your hand behind you back so they can’t see how many fingers you are holding up and obnoxiously yelling “I know something you don’t know.”

One pussy down, at least one more to go. 😺

#trans