Health Care, Surgery, Transgender, Anatomy, Impatience 

I think I am gonna look into an orchi because GCS isn’t until fall of 2023. 😮‍💨

Trans stuff and passing. 

Honestly, if you do pass often, then I probably don’t want to hear your takes on how passing isn’t important. I don’t disagree but I don’t need millionaires to tell me that money can’t buy you happiness.

Trans stuff, dysphoria, and a criticism of society. 

Questions like “why are all trans women hot?” don’t make me feel good. They make me feel icky at best and usually they make me feel excluded and invalidated.

Are you implying you have to be conventially beautiful to be valid? Are you saying all women aren’t beautiful? Are you separating trans and cis women? Are you trying to placate me?

Gender isn’t just about looks. Can we just celebrate trans people for more than their bodies?


Dysphoria doesn’t care that I have things to do and people to help. Dysphoria just wants to ruin everything.

Yesterday was probably my best birthday yet. ☺️

I just want to love myself. Is that too much to ask?

I want to see Sweet Home Alabama (or the many Christmas versions) but and . Does this film exist?

Body and success envy. 

I am exhausted. I'm making progress on my envy issues but talking to super-successful academics and touring a campus full of half-naked twentysomethings is a lot. I did better than I would have a few months ago but I still need some rest.


A new collaborator misgendered me today during a meeting. I wasn’t hurt or offended because I hadn’t offered my pronouns when we met and it was an honest mistake in the situation. I casually corrected and they were like “yeah, of course, sorry” then repeated the sentence with my correct pronouns. I may have needed that today more than being gendered correctly.

through the ditches
through the witches
in the back of my dragula

I have a cat and a girlfriend. I am a girlfriend. It’s old news but still cool.


I would rather see GOP ads than RuPaul Drag Race Video Game ads. Please stop. It hurts.

abortion legislation, #USPol 

If including trans men/mascs, intersex, & nonbinary folks by saying “people who need abortions deserve access to them” is enough to “harm the movement” then your movement isn’t worth shit.

Holding your hand behind you back so they can’t see how many fingers you are holding up and obnoxiously yelling “I know something you don’t know.”

Suggestive Language/Joke 

One pussy down, at least one more to go. 😺

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